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Six Organizations Helping People With Autism And Their Families

October 24, 2020 By twainbowadmin Leave a Comment

 

Living with Autism Spectrum Disorder, or raising a child with ASD, can be difficult for a number of reasons, from dealing with bullying to not knowing how to communicate effectively. That's why organizations like the ones listed here work to provide people with the support and education they need, from inclusive media to helpful services.

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Autistic Pride Day: June 18th, 2020

June 19, 2020 By Corey Coloma Leave a Comment

Autistic Pride Day

Living Under A Double Rainbow: A Tale of Two Closets

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Louis Molnar Portrait

Louis Molnar, Board Member

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A reflection of my last 5 years

October 30, 2019 By twainbowadmin 3 Comments

By: Corey Coloma, Twainbow Director

Five years ago today I was diagnosed as mildly autistic. This was commonly referred to as Asperger’s Syndrome. My life would never be the same. It was a pivotal moment when everything in my life suddenly made sense.

However, I quickly learned how mistreated people like myself are. I would find out how the world views autistic people and how society doesn’t have a clue at all.

People would start using functioning labels for me like I was some second class citizen. Before diagnosis people didn’t question my abilities in this manner. I was an independent adult that was capable of anything I wanted to accomplish. But afterwards, I was someone that was viewed as disabled and inferior to others.
I would eventually be told I needed to be on social security and have a case manager through the county developmental disability office and I would need someone to help me interact with society how they deemed appropriate.

This was not what I wanted. I just wanted to be happy and find a career I loved. People often don't think I'm autistic because I don't fit their narrow minded view of who we are. Many people thought I must just be schizophrenic or that I memorized the questions to get a diagnosis. I went to the Amen clinic to have brains scans done about 4 years ago to prove I was autistic. That changed things for me.

The State has rules designed to control our lives and the lives of all people with disabilities. They choose what's best for their view of us. Not what we actually desire.

People would tell me I was high functioning. Something that really just says my autism doesn’t affect their life. Something that says my opinion doesn’t matter because I'm not like the people they deem as low functioning. Functioning Labels are one of the most useless pieces of an autism diagnosis. They don’t tell the real story.

I am constantly treated like an inferior person by so many people. Everything I do is ridiculed. People assume I am incapable. They assume I can’t drive or I can’t pay for myself because I must not have adequate employment. There are so many assumptions. The stigma and mistreatment of autistic individuals is much worse than actually living as an autistic individual.

People think I will be unable to communicate but people like myself communicate directly. We do not hint or play charades. If you ask indirect questions of me or hint at me and I don't respond all you need to do is ask directly to get what you want answered. It's also great if you tell me the purpose of your question as I will see all possibilities and not know what you are trying to find out. You should also know that I'm generally a private person and if you are fishing for something I will likely ignore you.

In 5 years I have completely changed my life. I continue to progress and better myself. I achieve my goals and continue the path I have created for myself. I have attained the middle class status and live in a modest apartment alone. I have nothing to prove. I am who I am and I have learned to love myself more.

Corey Coloma, Twainbow Director

I don't need anyone to be complete. I would love to have a dedicated life partner. It's something difficult to find in today's society. But I know I am worthy of love and will make a great partner. I am free to live my life how I desire.

Five years ago was the first day of the rest of my life. My diagnosis would nearly destroy me with two suicide attempts and a lot of heartache from the abuse I would go through. But after it all I would prevail and be reborn like a phoenix from the ashes.

I did not give up because of my autism but because of a great many life circumstances and abuse by those that were supposed to protect me.

You can shame me for giving up or you can realize that the mental health stigma with men is one of the problems with society and why men have such turmoil with living with mental health conditions.

If someone you know and love talks as if there is no reason to live or that they are worthless, reach out to them. Don't tell them to man up and shame them. Don't disregard their feelings. Support them in getting the support they need to change their life.

I'm so thankful for Louie in my life. I wouldn't be where I am today without his loving guidance. I never would have been able to succeed without my therapist Lincoln Witt here in Eugene Oregon with his neurofeedback therapy that changed my life.

If you are in the Eugene area I highly recommend Lincoln Witt as a therapist. He works with people with disabilities and gender and sexuality diverse individuals and uses many ways to change your life including neurofeedback therapy that will fix PTSD, anxiety, depression and more. He takes most major insurance providers.

I never would have imagined where I am today without these people in my life.

I am thankful I was not diagnosed earlier in life for I would have grown up being told by the world that I was incapable and a second class citizen.

I have taken a great deal of time to think about where I want to be and what I want to accomplish and continue to progress towards that.

Please read my diagnosis story and where I am in life now at the following links.

With all things said you must keep in mind this is my story and not that of everyone. All of us are each unique individuals with different paths and different abilities.

Sincerely Yours,
Corey Coloma, Twainbow Director

Diagnosis Story: https://www.twainbow.org/2017/12/18/i-am-autism-diagnosis-at-30-a-broken-system/
My accomplishments: https://www.twainbow.org/2019/07/29/twainbow-defines-what-it-means-to-live-under-the-double-rainbow/

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Twainbow Defines What it Means to Live Under The Double Rainbow

July 29, 2019 By twainbowadmin Leave a Comment

Corey Coloma, Twainbow Director

I recently was asked some questions by the American Autism Association about my life as a member of the LGBTQI+ community that is diagnosed with Asperger's.

The following article is the result of that. These are a few of my thoughts from a personal perspective. This may not be everyone's experience but it is a brief window into mine.
-Corey Coloma, Twainbow Director

Click to access AAA_-Twainbow-Pride-Story.pdf

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PRESS RELEASE: Autistic Pride Day 2019

June 18, 2019 By twainbowadmin Leave a Comment

Each summer on June 18th, Autistic Pride Day is celebrated worldwide. Using social media and public events, organizations and individuals celebrate the neurodiversity of people on the autism spectrum, many of whom also identify with the LGBTQI+ community. There are several symbols of this celebration, such as the rainbow infinity sign. Another symbol of this celebration is a flag with three vertical lines in the primary colors: red, green, and blue. When combined, these colors create all of the other colors of the rainbow and “represent the overlap of autism onto every other Pride gradient, since those on the autism spectrum are found in every country, sex, race, religion, and sexual orientation.”

The white infinity sign at the center of the flag symbolizes the infinite diversity of the people who the flag represents. Thanks to the design efforts and voting of Twainbow’s online community members in 2015, the Autistic Pride Flag is proudly waved not only on Autistic Pride Day, but every day. Twainbow seeks to educate, connect, and empower those who live under the double-rainbow of the LGBTQI+ community and the Autism Spectrum. The organization is proud to continue this mission with the assistance of a new board chair, Tony Rowe.

Tony Rowe - APD 2019
Tony Rowe, Current Twainbow Board Chair

          Tony began contributing to Twainbow’s mission by volunteering his technology skills. He redesigned the official website and created an early version of Twainbow’s newsletter, which is debuting today. While Tony’s position as the board chair is primarily to preside over board meetings, he hopes to assist his fellow Twainbow leaders in bringing awareness to the challenges and successes of those living under the double-rainbow by reaching out to individuals who are willing to share their stories – stories that deserve to be heard.

Tony’s story began when he came out as gay as a teenager and was later diagnosed with ADD. After being placed in a “special education” class, Tony realized he was not like other people and struggled with bullying and depression. After overcoming this dark time in his life, Tony became active in the LGBTQI+ and mental health communities. In 2016, he was formally diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder without intellectual or language impairment. Since joining Twainbow and meeting others like himself, Tony has found a sense of understanding and belonging and has made great strides in his own personal growth. As part of Twainbow’s leadership team, he hopes to help others do the same and sees no better time to officially begin than on Autism Pride Day.

            In honor of Autism Pride Day, Twainbow invites you to share your story of Autism Pride using #AutismPride2019 on Twitter, comments on Facebook, and comments below this post. Afterwards, check out these Autism Pride events!

Autistic Pride Events 2019
Twainbow Autistic Pride Day Event

Written by Lacie Rowe
Lacie Rowe is a graduate of the University of North Alabama and is currently pursuing her career in professional writing.

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Press Release

February 14, 2019 By twainbowadmin Leave a Comment

February 14, 2019

Today we’re celebrating the three year anniversary of the Official Press Release of the Autism Pride Flag. Twainbow is also thrilled to announce the Twainbow Shop. There you can find merchandise available for purchase with the Autism Pride Flag and our Logo.

-The Twainbow Team

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